Well i really loved this girl very much and poured my whole heart to her. We went out for 6 months. Last Valentines day i bought her 20 roses and 4 boxes of chocolate and a small cute teddy bear. She accepted the gifts and her whole family were very happy when i gave her the gifts. Her mother is retired and before, she was working very hard day and night to pay of the house rents. I had written her a letter to say not to work and that i would give the money to help with the debts, As her mother read the letter she was in tears and got emotional and from that day on she never worked and was very happy with me. On Christmas day I bought her a book which was her most favourite which really was happy. Also whenever it was her sisters or any family members birthday i would always wish them a happy birthday and give them a box of chocolates and a card. I took her and her sister chester zoo and blackpool and restaurants and cinemas etc... However 2 weeks before her birthday she called me and said i like somebody else now and he likes me.
I did everything i could possibly do to be with her and i always sent her nice texts. Even if i didnt have any credit on my mobile i would always email her or call her from my home telephone to let her know that i care about her. I was planning a surpirse for her birthday in getting a mosaic of her picture and a birthday cake with her photo on it. I only wanted to know whether she would on the next valentines day and whether she would regret it.Aww, how I wish alot of guys were as romantic as you.. but somewhere along the line you came on too strong and gave her too much without her putting much of an effort to appreciate it. When you're in a relationship, it's hard not to give too much when you feel you love the person, but then it hurts much more when they tell you it's over because you know you gave her alot and without reward. I wish you luck, and frankly, if she does regret leaving you it will be when she gets dumped by this loser and finds herself alone.Maybe she was tired of dating a "nice guy." Maybe she didn't feel comfortable receiving all those gifts or felt like you were trying to buy her love.
I think she'll always remember you and think about you.
However, I doubt that she regrets breaking up with you. Unless she was also doing all these nice things for you, then it sounds very one-sided. i was almost in the same shoes that you are in i tread a girl that i went out whit like a queen and all i got is a stab i the back she used me left me whit explanation that did not make no sense at all to me to this day she did not talk to me no text no e-mail no nothing you are a nice guy like me and yes one day she will learn her lesson and wish that she would not broke up whit you that day she will regret it just moved on whit your life and the did not tell you that face to face that she braking up whit you it shows what kind of person she is she be sorry one day You came on too strong and got dumped. Move on.Obviously you two didn't have a long term connection, so she moved on. Love and relationships isn't only about paying bills and boxes of chocolates.
So, I doubt she regrets leaving you, that's for other reasons. She may remember you on Valentines Day, although her new man will probably do something really good, so you will be in the back of her mind, at best.
If she appreciated the things you did for her when you did them, then she'll always appreciate them. But now it's time for both of you to move on!#If you have any other info about this subject , Please add it free.# |
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January 6th, 2009 - Posted in hznj.com | edit |
